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Adopted Into the Family of Faith
Part One: The Three Loves

Sermon preached by Rev. Brad Beeman
July 16, 2006

Scripture: Psalm 24; Ephesians 1:3-14


“Church Growth….” I wish I had the time this morning to ask you what comes to mind when I say those two words. As many of you are aware, church growth has become a multi-million dollar industry. Hundreds of books have been written about it. Seminars have been developed costing hundreds of dollars each. Churches are spending thousands trying to figure out how to do it. It is amazing to me that so many of us believe that the answer lays somewhere out there when in fact I believe it lays firmly right here – in us. I believe that if you asked Rick Warren at Saddleback Church or Bill Hybels at Willow Creek they would agree. The growth they’ve seen wasn’t found in some seminar or someone else’s book. It was found here – in this book and the relationships that were born out of it. As I have said very openly to my colleagues – I wonder, in the midst of the church growth boon, if we might have lost our focus, and for the next three weeks I’d like to explore and examine this a little more fully as we concentrate on this letter to the Ephesians.

This morning I’d like to set the groundwork for the next couple of weeks and begin in the ancient city of Ephesus, move then to New York City and then back here - to present-day Santa Monica. It’s a long journey by miles and by time, but the connection to this book will allow us to move through it pretty quickly. At the same time, I would like to ask that you bring your Bibles over these next few weeks as we try and unwrap the timeless truths that can be found for us in this letter / sermon we now call Ephesians. The theme is church health. And we begin in Ephesus somewhere between 57 and 80 CE.

Ephesus was an ancient coastal city not unlike Santa Monica. It was beautiful and planned around the sea and surrounding hills. It was filled with people from all over the world. It was a tourist town, a part of the trade route and a place people came to find themselves. It held one of the seven ancient wonders of the world – the Temple to Diana, which was able to seat somewhere between 24,000 and 50,000 people. It was the temple that was the significant draw and the temple that kept folks busy, including Paul as he sought to bring a different message of love to this diverse population. Out of that, a church was born. By 65 CE – less than thirty years after the death and resurrection of Jesus – Ephesus had one of the stronger of the new Christian churches. Paul founded the church on his second missionary journey and then a bit later spent three years there teaching the church how to be the church. Timothy had been appointed there as pastor. Even John – the author of Revelations – had moved through there before his ultimate exile to the island of Patmos – an island just off the coast. This was an important church, a vital church to Christianity. It was also a growing church, growing because of a couple of important elements.

First, it grew because it believed that God had a dynamic plan for them, and they saw themselves as implementers of that plan. God’s plan involved the ability to practice a three-fold love; love of God first. Secondly, they practiced an intentional, protected and shared love with each other – those within the church. Third, they shared a deep sense of love with those outside of the church – the poor they fed and housed, and those who sought answers by worshipping Diana were given a different alternative, a different example of what love could be. Ephesus appeared to be a church based in love – directed love, received love, forgiving love, action-oriented love, even accepting (continued...)


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love. But somewhere along the way something happened to them. Somewhere between twenty-five and thirty years later we see a different picture of this church looking back. Look with me at Revelation and John’s response to his beloved church.

In the book of Revelation it is the church in Ephesus that is identified first by John – first of the seven. Remember that Revelation was written in a time of unbelievable persecution. It is a letter that offers both hope and motivation to the seven churches remaining in this region. John writes of his admiration for the Ephesians’ toil and their patient endurance. He offers them support and encouragement. Then he challenged them at their very core. John writes, “I have this against you, that you have abandoned the love you had at first. Remember then from what you have fallen; repent, and do the works you did at first. Let anyone who has an ear listen to what the Spirit is saying to the church.” Friends, something had happened to the love.

To try and find out what had changed, we have to go back to the letter and what this author says about loving God. You heard eleven verses this morning; in the original Greek it was one long and powerful sentence that talked about being blessed by God with every spiritual blessing, being adopted by God, about God’s freely bestowed grace, about being freed and forgiven, of being offered wisdom and insight by God and about being accepted, encouraged, motivated to be better children of God. This was a reminder that began with a blessing and moved into a description of the importance of a personal and real relationship with Jesus, with God through God’s Holy Spirit. These are powerful words about a potentially very powerful relationship. But let’s go deeper. We’ll look over the next couple of weeks at some of these. This author moves beyond the relationship with God and firmly into relationships with those in the church. He makes statements like: “Be angry, but don’t let the sun go down on your anger.” Or, “I beg you to live a life worthy of calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love making every effort to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.” Why these? Because the church in Ephesus had been born of and built on loving relationships and now they were beginning to struggle.

Had the stresses and trials moved some out of loving relationships, out of the focus on being saints who were faithful to Jesus Christ and away from the faithful calling they had received to love God and each other? Had they lost some of the love? The concentration on but one of those loves was simply not enough. What can and often does readily diminish a church and even a denomination is a singular focus on self-protection played in an attitude of self-preservation. Had Ephesus fallen into that trap? If so, it would certainly motivate the author of Revelations to offer them the challenge. It was certainly not the last time a struggle like this required refocusing and different actions.

There was another element that Paul helped the church redefine – particularly in relation to the love of neighbor. For that we look back to the Book of Acts and Paul’s response to those in need in the community. Paul healed – any who would come – Paul healed. As he did, the author simply states that Paul helped redefine for them what the kingdom of God was all about. That third type of shared loved was essential to balance in the church. When that element is missing, the church becomes much less powerful and moves into a time of struggle. That takes us to the year 1853, New York City and Methodism in that time.

This was a time of immense immigration to the United States. New York City became the destination for so many who were looking for a new life. What they found, however, were dangerous and harsh conditions. These were violent times accurately portrayed in the movie The Gangs of New York. But where was the church? Simply stated, it was not responding. It seemed to have lost its way. But, as often happens, God lifts up a few who begin the change. Two individuals stand out in this time. The first was Rev. Dr. Charles Loring Brace. Brace was a
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Methodist Episcopal theologian-teacher who by 1853 had gained some notoriety. He could have easily focused on teaching. He could have focused on the split in Methodism that occurred not even ten years prior over slavery. He could have contributed to the debate on the role of laity or even on the role of Bishops that had been tearing Methodism apart. He, however, couldn’t do any of that. Like Paul in Ephesus, Brace saw a need for hope, for love and for ministry that simply couldn’t be ignored. The church needed to reestablish its focus on the mandates of Jesus, and for Brace it centered on children. Every morning on his way to work, he would walk by, step over, be jostled by or approached by some of the thousands of homeless children trying to survive on the streets of New York. Brace became overwhelmed and needed to respond. He was not alone.

Rev. Herman Clark was the other, also a Methodist pastor, who after searching for a decade finally found God’s purpose for him by the establishment of a pretty unusual church with an even more unusual congregation. The two joined forces and parts of the church refocused itself on love. Out of his passion for the children of New York, Rev. Charles Loring Brace established the New York Children’s Aid Society. It lives on even today. Out of that was born Rev. Herman Clark’s unusual congregation - The Orphan Train. Brace and Clark helped the orphan children of New York by creating the opportunity of relationships with families beyond the inherent dangers of living on the streets of New York. In a time with no e-mail, no phones, few far-reaching newspapers and little access to communication – these two found a way. Fliers were created and sent to every train stop between New York City and Chicago. The train then moved through the many small towns in the East and on into the Midwest. Families, individuals, grandparents, and those who could not have children responded in overwhelming numbers to the Orphan Train and adopted these children on the spot. Brace became the administrator and Rev. Herman Clark became the pastor. The children became his congregation. He would begin with a trainload of children in New York City and introduce them along the way to those who would take them in, adopt them and provide loving homes. Each train, each car became a congregation, a vessel of hope…a sanctuary for thousands whose lives were changed and strengthened as a result. Out of this movement grew other organizations, other ministries that began to turn the church back to what it was intended to be. People like Herman Clark and Charles Loring Brace began a movement that re-ignited a spiritual renaissance in the church. Yes, there were challenges and things didn’t always work out the way they hoped. But lives were changed and a future provided for many who would not otherwise have one. I keep wondering if we might be in a similar time? From Ephesus to New York and now to Santa Monica.

My question over these past couple of weeks as I’ve prepared this sermon is: How are we doing on the three loves? Where are our strengths and challenges as we seek to implement God’s plan in this community? Have we embraced it with the passion we saw in Paul in Ephesus or of Brace and Clark in New York? We live in a community that sees all manner of folks come to find their dream, hoping to be adopted by an industry that has a tendency toward abuse. More often than I like to think, we become the place that helps some redefine their lives, overcome the despair, pick up the pieces and start a new life. Like Ephesus, we are a gathering place for so many, rich and poor. Like those along the path of the Orphan Train, we become a potentially family of hope for many. As a church, we’ve done a lot of good things. If you saw this last Sentinel, Patricia listed many of those in a wonderfully affirming way. In the midst of all of that I want to make sure we don’t lose our focus – our focus on love, of God – of each other – and of neighbor. Let’s examine some of this for a minute.

I believe we’ve done a good job of examining our love of God as we explore worship renewal, and potential changes in our Sunday morning schedule. Might each of us, however, be better about committing ourselves individually to the realizations found in these first fourteen verses of Ephesians. Do you really believe that these statements are true? Do you see yourselves as blessings of God? Do you believe that you are adopted into a family led by a God of love? Do you
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realize the expectations God has for us? Do you really believe that you’ve been forgiven and accepted? Do you pray believing that God answers? Do you believe that Christ seeks a relationship with you and can make you whole? These are just a few of the areas in need of examination as we look at church health. It is this kind of examination that will move us forward, strengthen us as a church, and create the energy required to stay focused on our love of God.

I believe we’re doing a good job of doing things for others – our neighbors. From our work across the street at Upward Bound House to the first, and now second, Gulf Coast work team. Our work with Alternative Christmas, the concert almost a year ago, the Annual Conference award won because of our mission support, our support of Relay for Life, Big Sunday and other community areas is of the highest quality. These are great qualities and great accomplishments. But do we believe that we have even more to offer. The church at Ephesus was dedicated to bringing hope for those with little hope. That became an enormous priority for them. As great as our work may be beyond our borders I continue to wonder if there might be more we can do as a church right here in Santa Monica. Be thinking about that over these next few weeks and let’s keep talking as we seek to continue to strengthen our love of neighbor.

Finally, how are we in our love of each other – of those who call this their church home? This may be the one that began to tear the church at Ephesus apart. It often is in churches. It certainly took its toll on churches in New York in the mid-19th century. It’s a continual challenge and even more so in a church this size. Here are some questions to ponder. On Sunday morning do you go out of your way to find and greet unfamiliar faces? Are you a voice of hospitality that immediately offers your hand to others? Even more importantly, when you feel a conflict with someone in the church, how do you deal with it? Do you bring others in who you know will support you and your opinion – even if it may be at the expense of others, or do you do the scriptural thing by trying to work things out with that person? Conflict, inappropriately dealt with, can destroy a church. Negativity is contagious. So is joy and reconciliation. I remind us again that church health is always about relationships and I wonder if we may have some work to do in this area. It was so in Ephesus, in New York and is so here.

Church health will come, as will growth, when we realize, like the Ephesians, that our lives are made whole by a relationship with Jesus Christ. They deepen when we have healthy relationships with each other here and beyond the walls. For this church to move to the next level, we must be, at every level, be a church based in the three loves. We, like the Orphan Train, become a vessel of love and sanctuary of hope. My hope is that everyone and anyone who walks through these doors, any who meet us on the streets of Santa Monica, any who hear of us in the Gulf Coast, in the Iware District of Nigeria, in the Conference Office, or anywhere else are able to say with great admiration – see how they love God, see how they love each other, and see how they love their neighbor. If we can focus on these three areas, then God our parent can say and feel that we have become the children He hopes us to be. We do that, and we will not be able to provide enough worship services, enough programs, enough opportunities to those who will flock here to be a part of it. It has happened before in this church. It can happen again in this church. Now we move forward and fan into flame again the love we have. It’s not about church growth. It’s about church health. Your assignment for this week is two-fold. First, read this letter to the Ephesians. Spend some time in it, study and be prepared for next week. Second, pay attention to what you are doing to love God, love each other here, and where you are loving your neighbor. Write it down, pray about it and make it a priority if you have not already done so. Then watch us grow in depth, in health and in relationships of love. Amen?

Amen!

©Brad Beeman , 2006. Permission is given for brief quotation with attribution. All other rights reserved.