First United Methodist Church    

1008 Eleventh Street, Santa Monica, CA
Website: www.santamonicaumc.org
Email: info@santamonicaumc.org
Phone: (310) 393-8258

The Savior We Follow, The Life We Lead:
What Do I DO?

Sermon preached by Rev. Patricia Farris
September 24, 2006

Scripture: James 3:13-4:3, 7-8a; Mark 9:30-37


Each Sunday in this 9:00 service, we sing the children up here to the chancel steps for a special time with them. We sing: “This is where children belong, welcomed as part of the worshiping throng; Water, God’s Word, bread and cup, prayer and song; this is where children belong.” Welcomed as part of the worshiping throng….

I believe that as a congregation we are continuing to grow in welcoming our children as fellow-worshipers, as equals in the sight of God, as together, young and old, short and tall, little and big, together we worship God. Oh, I know the children are cute and they often say funny things that make us laugh. But more and more, in the ways we worship together, we’re shifting from seeing them as entertainment for us to welcoming them as a true part of the worshiping congregation.

In our worship, more and more, we’re doing what Jesus demonstrates to his first disciples in Mark’s gospel, we’re welcoming children in his name, and in so doing, we’re welcoming him.

Those of you who were in worship last Sunday heard the children read Scripture. Many of you remarked on how powerful that was. And I have a feeling that the Word of God came alive for you in new ways as you heard them read. Because it was obvious that it came from their hearts and from their faith in God.

As we go forward, we will be including our children and youth more and more often as Lay Lectors. This requires advance preparation, to be sure, training and practice. And it all grows out of the Worship Renewal work we’ve been engaged in which we kicked off a year ago today with our first Worship Renewal Weekend and Celebration Sunday. As this year goes on, more and more of the fruits of that renewal work will become manifest among us as together we worship the living God. (continued...)


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Over the course of the next few weeks, we’re going to be lifting up the situation of children in our community and in our world as we observe Children’s Sabbath on October 8 and as our Lay Leader, Ron Theile, speaks on Laity Sunday, the following week. But today, I want to focus on a different aspect of Jesus’ teaching about children, the purely spiritual aspect. For it should be clear from his word to us this morning that for Jesus, welcoming children is a key to our spiritual health and growth.

Remember the setting. Jesus’ ministry is progressing. And all along the way, as he travels with his disciples from town to town, teaching and preaching and healing, he is working with his disciples to help them understand what he’s about, and most importantly, what this kingdom is that he so often speaks about. On this occasion he had again spoken with them about what was going to happen and all and again, they clearly didn’t want to hear it. He talks with them about how he will be betrayed and killed and on the third day, how he will rise again. Mark says they didn’t understand what he was saying and that they were even afraid to ask him about it and so they changed the subject.

We can relate. It’s just like when we’re watching TV and a serious documentary comes on about some really tough situation in the world and we hit the remote! Give me a sitcom or sports, please! I don’t want to deal with that heavy stuff right now.

But it’s even a bit worse for the disciples this day because Jesus overheard what they were arguing about and he asked them about it. Too embarrassed to tell him, they go quiet on him, no one daring to tell him that they’d argued about who among them was the greatest. How awkward and uncomfortable that moment must have been as they sat there in silence, ashamed of themselves, heads bowed, eyes cast down, hearts heavy with remorse.

Jesus shows such incredible compassion in that moment. He could have just shaken his head and walked away in disgust. He could have acted like a Marine sergeant and chewed them up one side and down the other. He could have called them on the carpet one at a time and embarrassed them in front of all the others. He could have done a lot of things—that he didn’t do. Instead, he had compassion on them just as he has compassion on us, over and over and over again, when we veer from his path, his Way, his truth and his life, and put our own needs for recognition and status ahead of everything else.

He reminded them of the key to it all, his identity and ours as well: whosoever wants to be first must be last of all and servant of all. A teaching so simple and so very hard. And then, to show them how to do it, he took a child and put it among them and took it in his arms and said: whoever welcomes one such child in my name, welcomes me, and whoever welcomes me welcomes the one who sent me.

Again, in our child-obsessed culture, we probably forget just how shocking this act would have seemed to those first disciples. At that time, children were pretty much the lowest of the low in terms of their social standing, the last and the least. So for him to say: welcome one such as this! would have turned their world upside down. (continued...)


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But even from our perspective, we, too, can get inside the kind of spirituality and faith he’s showing us here. Imagine…. To welcome a child, you have to bend down. You can feel out of balance and a bit awkward. And children wiggle and squirm. They can be sticky and messy. The little ones are likely to reach up and pull at your glasses or your earrings. They ask you embarrassing questions. And often they could care less about what you have to say. Welcoming a child gets us out of our comfort zone and into the mindset we need to be in to “get” the counter-intuitive lesson Jesus is teaching us here: whosover wants to be first must be last of all and servant of all.

There’s a story told about a young rabbinical student who asked the old rabbi: “Rabbi, why don’t people see God today as they did in the olden days?” The wise rabbi reflected for a moment and then said: “The answer, my son, is because no one is willing to stoop so low.”

[Welcoming children puts us bigger people into a posture of receiving, of setting aside any puffed-upness we may be harboring and opening ourselves to receive God in Christ in life giving ways. In this spiritual work, we can join our Jewish brothers and sisters on this weekend of Rosh Hashana and the days of reflection leading to Yom Kippur as we welcome the Sha’arei-Am Synagogue into our house of worship for these high holy days. For this is the Jewish celebration of the new year, of new beginnings with God, of the possibility of a new and restored relationship with God. And that promise of newness speaks to us Christians as well. With them, let us pray for a new heart, a new posture towards God, a new welcoming spirit towards one another and all God’s children.]

In SH today, during Coffee Hour, look for some recent photos we have received from our partner church in New Orleans, Bethany UMC. Might not look like much to you—children playing on grass—unless you know the story behind the photo.

By now you’ve probably heard the stories our work teams are telling about the devastation they experience even still all through New Orleans. How everything looks brown and dirty because so many lawns and trees were wiped out in the flood waters and just beginning now to come back here and there. When our first team was in the planning stages last February, Pastor Edwards invited them to come and work on the landscaping around the church. I was in Brazil at the time at the World Council of Churches and I kept emails from our folks wondering if it was really worth all our time and effort to get our Team to New Orleans to plant a few plants, or so it seemed. We wanted to do grand things, worthy of our time, skill and financial investment—and putting down sod just didn’t seem to be quite it. (continued...)


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I just kept advising them to talk with Pastor Edwards. Find out WHY he needs us to come do this. Find out why it’s so important right now. And of course, we all soon learned that the presence of green living beauty around that church was part of their plan to rebuild. That green growing grass and plants and flowers were all part of their strategy to show the community that life could go on, even in that place of devastation. They knew that grass would be a powerful way of showing that the church was resurrected, that it was alive and well. That growing green grass was to be a beacon of hope, a statement of faith and a testimony to the power of God.

And now, what we can see in the photos, is that that very grass that our team put in is now that testimony of faith. It is an oasis of beauty and life, welcoming children back home to the house of God. You’ll see it on their faces and in their smiles. Our grass says: “Welcome home, children! This is a place for laughter, for play, for joy, for hope and for great faith.”

You see, maybe stooping low to put down sod wasn’t such a lowly task after all. Maybe, in God’s eyes, it was the most important thing anybody could have done. For whosoever wants to be first must be last of all and servant of all.

Thanks be to God for the upside down kingdom of Jesus Christ, who stooped down to open his arms and welcome a child, whose compassionate love bends us low and in so doing, lifts us higher than we could ever have imagined, showing us the way to the fullness of life.

Amen

©Patricia Farris , 2006. Permission is given for brief quotation with attribution. All other rights reserved.